I was at my new place of employment and I thought bullying ended with at least high school. Do some people even in their 60’s never grow up.
To much my surprise. The owners friend was in and a typical crazy Friday. Told me to my face if I’m going to work in a health medical spa that I need to lose my belly. Did she in a sneaky way call me fat.
I never signed up for the challenge this month. Is it to late. I will show her.
Funny thing is… She wants to have the surgeon do Botox. Lipo suction. Derma fillers. Etc….
I wonder who would win in the long run.??
What a hateful human being! Very Unenlightened to be working in a health facility! Firstly, what she says to you, you must not let sink in! If she is going to be like that while you are new it’s likely she has major confidence issues and doesn’t deserve your attention and secondly, don’t let it pressure you into doing anything! You found this programme and joined in because you want to make positive changes and that’s amazing, but do it for you, not some plastic nightmare woman!
I wonder if you will ever good enough to a person like her. It is a distorted self image behind I think and whatever you do you wont be good enough. She will find other faults …… consider looking for other work. This thing can poison your daily life.
I can tell you this ……I would rather go to a spa and see people who may be a bit robust but happy and helpful than see a thin person with all the fake fixins, snooty and jugemental.I would feel happy to come back with the first person and not come back with the last person mentioned.I would be wondering what she would be saying about me behind my back to other employees and other well known customers. Look I have a hard enough time excepting myself…..I don’t need others judging who they think I am by the way I look.You go girl !
Wow!!! That’s awful!!!!! Some people just don’t get it. If they have never had this problem they do t understand. Keep your head up ! And rock on. I work with someone like that aswell , just ignore and do it for yourself!!! If this what you want to do. But let me tell you I just started figure 8 and I’m loving it. It’s not at all like working out. Wish I would have found this years ago