My husbands afraid he’ll hurt me…says I’m too skinny also, he can now feel my hip bones ~ He’s made me feel ‘ugly’ and has told me …get this…GAIN SOME WEIGHT !!! Of all things to say!
I cried my eyes out…
I’m 9 months post op… lost 125.1 lbs (5’7” – weigh 134.4).
I haven’t been able to speak of this anywhere to anyone… this is the first forum / area I’ve seen that I can mention it ‘safely’… Cause I feel damn good about myself and I am not about to do that!!
Sadly..intimacy is not a positive thing because of that…
I was losing the weigh and he was eating junk and getting big talked to him about be said the bypass was a bad idea for me Cause I’m a different person now. Well I did a 360 on his ads and left him moved out and moved on in my life I can’t be around someone that thinks I made a bad decision about my health
I am so grateful my husband has loved me all sizes and when I had surgery 4 months ago I was sacred!!! I said the other day how my skin is getting lose he responded with “I noticed, but it’s party of the journey and your just as beautiful”. I love that he loves me and my body with all the my perfect imperfections!!!
p.s. I think he is secretly sad Im losing my breast though
I got really lucky my husband has been so supportive and even helped me along the way. His thoughts are if I have a hot wife when someone is looking at her he can proudly say she belongs to me. But he has loved me no matter what size I am and he is not jealous of anything.